The Francis Scott Key Bridge Tragedy: Maryland Tough and Baltimore Strong

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“Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.”-Matthew 5:4

Happy New Year Readers! The last almost six months of my life have been busy and full of transition, pruning, establishing, pondering and more. I have been podcasting more often than writing. You are welcome to check out my podcast by clicking here. I will return to blogging more often starting in April or May. I was in rest and reset mode for months. I needed to be still in order to hear from and obey God. Happy Holy Week to you and all whom you hold dear. I want to thank you for your love and support of my blog. You are welcome to reach out to me on social media.

On Tuesday March 26, 2024, the national tragedy of the Francis Scott Key Bridge Collapse occurred. Two Marylanders survived, four have been recovered as deceased and two are missing and presumed deceased. Our prayers and condolances continue to be with the families, loved ones and community of those directly involved in the tragedy. We are thankful to our local, state and national leaders as well as our first responders, medical teams and more.You are welcome to read the latest about the tragedy by going to the AP or our local stations Fox 45, WBAL and WJZ.

On that tragic Tuesday morning, I was up at 4:15 am for 5:00 am prayer with my church. I looked at my digital watch and saw a headline from the AP. It said something along the lines” The Francis Scott Key Bridge in Baltimore which is a portion of the 695 highway has collapsed due to a ship hitting it early this morning. ” The first thing I began to do was pray and cry. I could not believe what was unfolding here on Maryland soil. Then I joined prayer calls at 5:00 am and 6:00 am to join with others and pray. I watched the news conferences and continued to pray. I cried and prayed throughout the day.

The Key bridge as we call it in Maryland is a main travel point and is used by tens of thousands of people daily. In addition to those who work in that area, it is an entry point for trade and travel. Our first responders closed the bridge, which saved countless lives and also dove into the water to recover those lost. It was very dark when the collapse occurred at 1:00 am. As usual, our first responders risked their lives to save others. The Marylanders involved in the tragedy were waiting on their repairs to 695 to dry when the collapse occurred. They had repaired potholes on the highway. They were finishing their jobs and preparing to go home to their families, loved 6 community. Most of us expect our loved ones to return home from a hard day’s work.

Baltimore is a gem of Maryland. It is the most populated city in Maryland and is at the center of Maryland. As a native and resident Marylander with Baltimore roots, I am so proud of my home state. You can be a Marylander by birth, adoption and marriage. This week I found myself getting Boardwalk fries (no vinegar Marylanders because I was tired). It made me feel closer to home. The Orioles opening day was a stunning display of Maryland’s toughness and Baltimore’s strength. Maryland’s own world renowned Morgan State University Choir sang the Star Spangled Banner in stunning fashion. If you did not know the Francis Scott Key bridge was named for the Marylander who wrote our National Anthem in Baltimore during the War of 1812. When you visit Baltimore you have to see the Fort McHenry museum and among many other places.

Just like any other city, Baltimore has its own personality. Here are some of my bias observations and this list is not complete. I could write a book.

  1. We will never eat anything with crab outside the boundaries of Maryland. This includes DC.
  2. Our snowball menu is more detailed than most restaurants. 
  3. Old Bay, hot sauce and vinegar are staples like salt and pepper. 
  4. Chicken boxes without a slice of bread, hot sauce, ketchup, sat and pepper are suspect. 
  5. Funnel cakes and fried Oreos are summer favorites. 
  6. You will see #Birdland and #Ravensflock represented year around. This is why purple and orange always go so well together.
  7. We love and adore all branches of the military but we have a soft spot for the Navy. 
  8. A Baltimorian will tell you what neighborhood they are from without hesitation. 
  9. The battle of the east and west side is real and a great conversation starter.
  10. The best high school in Baltimore is The Baltimore Polytechnic Institute. (I am petty.) 
  11. Baltimorians have a brand of petty. It is without question unique.
  12. Baltimore can be pronounced with a d or w and birthday can be pronounced with a f. 
  13. Club music is king in Baltimore. 
  14. A crab feast is about being social as well as the crabs. 
  15. Orioles or Ravens gear will automatically spark a conversation with a stranger who is now family. 
  16.  A half and half is a staple drink and it better be sweet. 
  17. Berger cookies are delicious and you cannot eat just one.
  18. Baltimore has a wealth of history that reaches internationally.
  19. Hon is a term of endearment. A beehive is not necessary. 
  20. We are so beautifully diverse.

Our hearts and reality have been shattered in Maryland but we are tough and strong. We will do what we always do. We will come together as a unit to support, love and care for one another. We will rebuild and move forward together. I would encourage you to visit Baltimore. Our city is so beautiful and has so much to offer. Thank you for your continued prayers and love for Baltimore. God continues to do what he does best which is to keep us as a city and state. To God be the glory in advance of what is next for us. 

Savoring The Changing of Seasons

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“He made the moon to mark the seasons, and the sun knows when to go down.”-Psalm 104:19

Happy Autumn or Fall Readers! I pray your summer was stunning, sunny and beautiful. If you were like me and summer was challenging, I pray that God would come near to you. Can you believe it is October 2023? I feel like 2023 just started but we are closing in on the end of 2023. In Maryland, autumn has arrived but it has been a mixed bag with summer days as well as cold and rainy days. This week the weather has returned to typical normal fall weather which has a crisp wind paired with sunshine.

I am just reminded of the importance of savoring the different seasons of life. I remember a time in my life when I did nothing but work. At the time, I was trying to establish myself in what I thought was my life long career. I enjoyed this season at first but then I realized that I was overworked and had horrible boundaries which showed up in my health, poor time management, not being available to cultivate healthy sustaining and nurturing relationships and friendships. I am now in a career and job where my life has so much balance, peace and life.

The seasons in our lives will evolve. Some seasons will last a very long time and some may be very short. Whatever the season, we will be given an opportunity to learn, grow, rest, teach, lead or more. It is important to make use of a season and know that the season is a chapter in our lives. As Christians, we need to remember that regardless of the season God is always present with us. He loves us so much that we are never alone. Psalm 36:5 says, “Your steadfast love, O LORD, extends to the heavens, your faithfulness to the clouds.” God is unconditionally faithful to us.

The length or intensity of the season does not dictate how long God will be with us. God is with us forever. I remember an extended season of my life that used to be quiet and isolating. I was alone because I had been hurt and disappointed by other people. I also was struggling with living a peaceful life. I even engaged with God on a transactional basis. When I allowed God, to address my wounds and come close to me, I was able to receive long over due healing, peace joy and love.

God also built a community where everyone unconditionally loves and cares for one another. I want to encourage you to savor each season by holding on to God’s hand and inviting a trusted group of people to be on your journey. May God bless us as we close out 2023 in a peaceful, loving and victorious note. God is excellent. Romans 8:28-29 says, “28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. 29 For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. “

Chapter 43: Happy Birthday to me!

“Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever.”-1 Chronicles 16:34

Happy birthday to me! To God be the glory for allowing me to see another birthday. 43 years ago on this day, God decided to deposit me into the world. God was strategic with choosing my family, skin color, nationality, beautiful kinky hair, height and so much more that makes the fabric of who I am today. I will not lie and tell you that the past 43 years of my life have been very easy. I have just like any other human being ups and downs and in between moments of my life. I will say I am so grateful and thankful to God for being his daughter and walking in the freedom of being a redeemed chosen anointed daughter of God. 

This is the first year in a very long time that my birthday is being celebrated in a more introspective way. I’m really taking a moment to absorb the day but I’ve been preparing for this day for the last three months or so. I think sometimes we go through the motions of life so fast that we don’t even take a moment to pause and celebrate ourselves while looking back over our lives. I thank God for what he has done, is doing and will do in my life. It’s so easy to get focused on what we don’t have or what could have been but having the opportunity to live a day above ground is another day that we have an opportunity to be a member of God’s body and do great and remarkable things on his behalf. 

I used to be somebody who tried to confine the celebration of my birthday into one day. Then many years ago I decided just to spread out the love throughout the month of August. Then God revealed to me that I don’t need to wait for a special occasion to do something nice for myself. Whatever I do for myself from making a decision to go to bed on time, trying a new workout, going shopping to add a couple of pieces to my wardrobe, having brunch, lunch or dinner with a dear friend of mine, developing strategy when it comes to my podcast and blog, taking the time to pray for myself, my village and the people that God has entrusted to me, I just want to live my life to the best of my ability by walking out what God has declared and deposited  me into the world to do. 

God placed his nature and image inside of me to do great works on his behalf. He never wanted me to live a life of regret or disappointment but he wants me to live a life that Jesus had to lay down his life for me to have and I can honestly say that I am so glad that God not only redeemed me but he has revamped, healed and opened my mind to being an excellent and pristine version of the woman he has called me to be. May God bless you as you take the time to celebrate yourself on everyday and not just on your birthday. Also, no matter what your age is know that God is not finished with you yet.  

Worship Moment: “Look What You’ve Done” by Tasha Layton

Look What You’ve Done by Tasha Layton

Good Morning Readers! Glory to God in the highest. Today, I want us to pause and praise God. This beautiful song by Tasha Layton entitled “Look What You’ve Done” has become a favorite worship song of mine. Jesus finished it for us. We do not have to accept or receive anything that the devil or any person, place or thing working with the enemy is assigning to us. Our destiny and purpose were sealed by Jesus at Calvary. We do not have to settle for less than. We are children of God.

When I think of how God has given me victory over so many things that used to torment me. I remember when shame, fear, anxiety, self-hatred, low self-esteem and more used to rule over my life. I was a born again Christian and did not fully receive and accept the finished work of Jesus. Sometimes, our worst enemy can be ourselves. We get in our own way with our thoughts, assumptions and declarations that do not line up with God’s word and his purpose for our lives.

Now is the time for us to shine and trust God for what he established before the foundations of the earth for us to do. Do not give the enemy another second of your life. Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” May God bless us as we worship and praise him for all that he has done and sit in anticipation of what is next.

Psalm 34 A Moment of Gratitude

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“I will bless the Lord at all times; His praise shall continually be in my mouth. My soul makes its boast in the Lord; The humble and downtrodden will hear it and rejoice. O magnify the Lord with me, And let us lift up His name together. I sought the Lord [on the authority of His word], and He answered me, And delivered me from all my fears.”-Psalm 34: 1-4 (The Amplified)

Hello readers! I pray you are doing well. My summer has been extremely busy and one day I will provide details. God is excellent. I praise him for his faithfulness. This week as my birthday week gift to you, I am publishing three blogs this week. Thank you for sticking with me. May God enrich our time together. You are always welcome to meet me on social media by clicking here. I am extremely thankful for your support and trust. We are learning from one another.

Psalm 34 is a classic. I am struck by how King David always had praise on his tongue for God. He was anointed to be king and that created a target on his back. His family abandoned and rejected him, Saul tried to kill him, his men were angry with him and so on. Despite being on the run for his life, hiding in a cave and more, he praised God. May Psalm 34 remind us of the faithfulness of God. God is excellent. May God bring us closer to him in his word and enrich our lives for the better.

Psalm 34 (The Amplified)

The Lord, a Provider and the One Who Rescues Me.

A Psalm of David; when he pretended to be insane before Abimelech, who drove him out, and he went away.

1 I will bless the Lord at all times;
His praise shall continually be in my mouth.
My soul makes its boast in the Lord;
The humble and downtrodden will hear it and rejoice.
O magnify the Lord with me,
And let us lift up His name together.

I sought the Lord [on the authority of His word], and He answered me,
And delivered me from all my fears.
They looked to Him and were radiant;
Their faces will never blush in shame or confusion.
This poor man cried, and the Lord heard him
And saved him from all his troubles.
The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear Him [with awe-inspired reverence and worship Him with obedience],
And He rescues [each of] them.

O taste and see that the Lord [our God] is good;
How blessed [fortunate, prosperous, and favored by God] is the man who takes refuge in Him.
O [reverently] fear the Lord, you His saints (believers, holy ones);
For to those who fear Him there is no want.
10 The young lions lack [food] and grow hungry,
But they who seek the Lord will not lack any good thing.
11 Come, you children, listen to me;
I will teach you to fear the Lord [with awe-inspired reverence and worship Him with obedience].
12 Who is the man who desires life
And loves many days, that he may see good?
13 Keep your tongue from evil
And your lips from speaking deceit.
14 Turn away from evil and do good;
Seek peace and pursue it.

15 The eyes of the Lord are toward the righteous [those with moral courage and spiritual integrity]
And His ears are open to their cry.
16 The face of the Lord is against those who do evil,
To cut off the memory of them from the earth.
17 When the righteous cry [for help], the Lord hears
And rescues them from all their distress and troubles.
18 The Lord is near to the heartbroken
And He saves those who are crushed in spirit (contrite in heart, truly sorry for their sin).

19 Many hardships and perplexing circumstances confront the righteous,
But the Lord rescues him from them all.
20 He keeps all his bones;
Not one of them is broken.
21 Evil will cause the death of the wicked,
And those who hate the righteous will be held guilty and will be condemned.
22 The Lord redeems the soul of His servants,
And none of those who take refuge in Him will be condemned.

Worship Moment: Impossible by Pastor Mike Jr. Featuring James Fortune

“But He said, “The things that are impossible with people are possible with God.”-Luke 18:27”

God is faithful. He is has never broken a promise to us. In this season of the breakthrough as declared by my Apostle, I am believing God for moving on my behalf this month and beyond. This song has become my theme song. Worship is a wonderful way to be close to God. When we worship, we cannot worry. When we worship, we increase our faith. When we worship, we show God we love him beyond words. Let us believe God for the impossible. No matter what it sounds like, let us believe the word of the Lord. God bless you. Glory to God in the highest.

Impossible by Pastor Mike Jr. and James Fortune

[Intro: Pastor Mike Jr & The Choir]
You did the impossible, impossible
You did the impossible, impossible

[Verse 1: Pastor Mike Jr, James Fortune & The Choir]
Hopeless and confused
I got questions but still know You’re able
This current situation is testing my faith
Who would come and save the day?
My family is leaning on me
I have to strong to everybody else
But praying can you please help me?
If I could, I would, but I can’t
I need You to save the day

[Pre-Chorus: James Fortune & The Choir]
We call on Jireh (He provides for me)
Shield (He blocked it)
Will (in the middle of)
My storm He said (peacе)
Be still (He paid)
The bill (I’vе leaved long enough to know that Your testimony will be that)

[Chorus: Pastor Mike Jr & The Choir]
He did the impossible
Impossible (You did)
You did the impossible (impossible)
Impossible (You did)
You did the impossible (it was no money, but You Lord)
Impossible (You did)
You did the impossible
Impossible

[Bridge: Pastor Mike Jr & The Choir]
You did what no man could
You did (You did what no man could)
I’m here to testify that You did
You did what no man could
The reason I’m still breathing, I’m still living
You did (You still did) what no man could

[Chorus: Pastor Mike Jr & The Choir]
You did the impossible, impossible
You did the impossible, impossible
You did the impossible, impossible
You did the impossible, impossible

[Outro: Pastor Mike Jr, James Fortune & The Choir]
You saved the day
That when you thought it couldn’t be done
He swooped in, He’s our Hero, He saved
He saved the day
When my mother was sick and the doctors said they didn’t know what to do
God, You stepped in
You saved the day
With the facts in front of me I still hold on
To the faith inside of me
Because I could remember last time
You saved the day
Not always when I wanted You to
But just when I need You, God You did
You did the impossible, impossible

Introducing The Living Untangled Without Apology Podcast

Dear Readers,

I write to you today with immense joy and excitement as we embark on a new chapter together. Over the past almost eight years, we have shared a beautiful journey of faith, inspiration, and personal growth through Ada’s Corner. Your presence, engagement, and unwavering support have been a constant source of encouragement and inspiration to me. I am able to have this space because of you. Thank you for entrusting me with your ears and time.

As we continue to evolve and explore new avenues of connection, I am thrilled to announce the expansion of Ada’s Corner into the captivating world of podcasting. The “Living Untangled Without Apology” podcast is a heartfelt extension of the blogs that have touched your hearts. It is a space where we can delve even deeper into the topics that have resonated with you, infusing them with the power of spoken word. I was supposed to start this podcast in 2019 but to God be the glory for his mercy and care.

I invite you to join our growing podcast family as we embark on this transformative journey together. In each episode, we will explore the art of embracing our authentic selves as we live as free and liberated children of God. You can check out my podcast by clicking here. The podcast is available where most podcasts are available. I am still working on getting it on Apple Music. Just as we have done in the blogs, we will dive into vulnerable conversations, share personal stories, and more. These podcasts will be an immersive experience that resonates on a deeper level.

But let me assure you, dear readers, that this expansion does not mean a departure from our beloved blogs. The written word will continue to be a cornerstone of Ada’s Corner, offering a space for introspection, inspiration, and connection. The blog and the podcast will coexist harmoniously, weaving together to create a rich tapestry of thought-provoking content and transformative experiences. I am honored God called me into the space of podcasting. This is part of the reason I have been slow to post blogs.

In this season of growth and gratitude, I want to express my heartfelt appreciation for your faithfulness and dedication to Ada’s Corner. Your support, whether through comments, shares, or personal messages, has touched my heart and reaffirmed the importance of the work we do here. I am deeply grateful for each one of you and the community we have built together. Your presence has made Ada’s Corner a vibrant and welcoming space.

As we embark on this new chapter, I invite you to immerse yourself in the scriptures that remind us of the power of gratitude. Let us approach this journey with hearts filled with thanksgiving, acknowledging God’s goodness, and the blessings that surround us.

“Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name.” (Psalm 100:4)

“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18)

May these words inspire us to cultivate a heart of gratitude and appreciate the extraordinary blessings that unfold in our lives.

Thank you, dear readers, for being an integral part of Ada’s Corner. Your faithfulness and dedication have created a supportive and nurturing community that inspires and uplifts. Let us embrace this new chapter with open arms and open hearts, knowing that our shared journey continues to flourish and evolve.

With heartfelt gratitude and anticipation,

Ada

A Detour To An Elevated Blessing

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“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”-Galatians 6:9
Hey there, wonderful readers! I am so glad to be back on a light basis. My next two blogs will discuss two of the many reasons I have limited my writing. It has been for great reasons. Thank you for your continued trust of me. I appreciate you reading my blog and supporting me in my absence. You are welcome to connect with me on social media by clicking here. This website will show you two of my reasons for limiting my writing. Today, I want to dive into a topic that’s close to my heart—the concept of detours and how they can lead us to extraordinary blessings. Life has a way of throwing unexpected curves our way, but trust me, there’s something remarkable waiting for us just around the corner.

In today’s scripture, we are reminded to not get weary. It is easy to say it but another thing to live it. Only the Holy Spirit can help us to stay hopeful in a hopeless situation. Life has a way of taking us through unexpected paths, and it’s easy to get disheartened or discouraged along the way. I am not preaching a sermon but speaking out loud about myself. I know there have been tearful prayers and sleepless nights wondering why I had not arrived at my destination. Then God reminded me that every detour has a divine purpose. Even when it seems like we’re going off track, God is working behind the scenes, leading us towards something far greater than we could have imagined.

Think about the Israelites wandering in the desert for forty years. That was a massive detour that eventually led them to the Promised Land—their ultimate blessing. It teaches us that sometimes, detours are necessary for us to grow, to learn, and to truly appreciate the blessings that await us. I also know that detours are responsible for the scripture in Exodus 13:17-18 which gives us a glimpse into the divine guidance present in the Israelites’ detour. God, in His wisdom, knew that the direct route would have led to difficulties the Israelites weren’t yet prepared to face. He led them on a detour, not to harm them, but to protect them and prepare them for the battles ahead. Their detour became a transformation journey of faith, trust, and dependence on God.

The detours we encounter in our lives are no different. They may seem like obstacles or setbacks, but they are divinely designed to refine us, strengthen our character, and align us with God’s perfect plan. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” When we trust God and surrender our detours to Him, something extraordinary happens. Our perspective shifts, and we start to see the hidden blessings along the way. We realize that those detours were not meant to derail us but to elevate us. The scripture in Romans 8:28 assures us, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”

So, dear readers, let’s embrace our detours with hope, knowing that in God’s hands, they can become stepping stones to an elevated blessing. Let’s trust in His guidance, knowing that He is faithful to lead us through every twist and turn, ultimately revealing a purpose far greater than anything we could have imagined.A s we journey through life’s unexpected detours, let’s hold on to the truth that God is always with us. Just like the Israelites, we may find ourselves on a longer path than expected, but in those detours, we can discover profound blessings and growth. Our detours are not meant to break us but to mold us into the men and women God created us to be.

God bless us as we navigate the detours of life which prepare and lead us to an elevated blessing. Glory to God in the highest.

Distractions Are Hindrances To Our Future 

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“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.”-John 10:10

Hello Readers! I pray you are doing well. Whatever time you are reading or listening to this blog, may God meet you in a special way. Thank you for spending time with me.

Distractions are designed to take us off track and keep us off track. Most of the time, distractions occur when we are productive or need to concentrate. The devil will use anything to derail our purpose. It could be conflict in a relationship or friendship. It could be keeping us stuck in a mindset that serves us no purpose. It could be interrupting our schedule to prevent us from fulfilling God’s best for us.

The devil wants to rob, kill and destroy. The plan of destruction is threefold: rob, kill and destroy. When I think back about the time, money and treasure wasted on people, places and things that had no business being in my realm but I gave them priority, I realize I was duped. This misuse of my time robbed, killed and destroyed my time, mental health, money, energy and more. I am so glad God can restore and redeem the things the devil has used as distractions.

Take a moment to ponder and think of ways you could have better used your time, talent and treasure. Have you forgiven yourself? Have you forgiven the other party? Whatever the case, please know God is able to redeem and restore whatever we have lost. God is so good and faithful. We need to trust him and believe him for his best. God is good. You are always welcome to leave a comment below or click here to meet me on social media. God bless you!

Worship Moment: Most Beautiful/ So in Love by Maverick City Featuring Chandler Moore

Most Beautiful/So in Love By Maverick City featuring Chandler Moore

Hello Readers! Welcome to Thursday! I pray that your week has been an awesome one. If you are struggling or joyful, you are in my prayers. Thank you for stopping by to spend some time with me. Worship is a beautiful part of our lives and relationship with God. We cannot truly love people from an authentic and healthy place until we love God. Mark 12: 30-31 says, “30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ 31 The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself. There is no commandment greater than these.”In order to love ourselves and other people we have to start by loving God.

God has given us everything with no cost or obligation. He died as Jesus to ensure we would have eternal life and live an abundant life. When I first heard “Most Beautiful/ So in Love”, I was weeping and felt the glory of God take over the space. At first the song was playing in the background and then everyone stopped to worship. This worship song is stunning and announced to everyone Maverick City was here to stay. If you have never heard this song, it will bless you a great deal. I listen to this song to remind me no matter what I love God and he loves me. I thank God for the ministry of Maverick City. You can keep the conversation going by clicking here to meet me on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter. God bless you!