There is nothing wrong with being in a relationship or being in love. However, you are already a complete person. You do not need to have a certain marital status, live in a certain neighborhood, look a certain way or have a lot of letters after your name to be complete. There is nothing wrong with these things but you are already a complete person. You may be striving to better your yourself or to leave your stamp on the world but you are already a complete person. You are a unique individual with unique talents and gifts. On top of that you are already stunning. Make yourself a promise that you will live today. Do not put off living because you have not obtained certain things yet.
A relationship, a certain degree or certification, living in a certain neighborhood and more may enhance your existence but these things are not needed to be a complete person. The opposite is also true. Too many times people put off starting a business, traveling, going after a promotion, furthering their education, buying a home because they want to wait until someone completes them. No human being can complete you. Another human being can enhance or compliment you but no one can complete you.
So single, divorced, widowed, married or separated, you are already complete. How ever your story is being written remember you are entitled to the best that life has to offer. Look deep in your heart and ask yourself: Are you are living your best life now? Are you enjoying the fruits of your labor? I know we have times of pain and healing but that should never be your lifestyle. Here is to knowing we are already complete and living the best life possible.